I really like skywars myself, as it’s a really fast-paced game, so I play it pretty much the most of the time. I like quick games, which is why I always vote basic myself. With basic items you will not be bothered by lava, and no fights that last for ages. I also find maps with a lot of space for PvP very important, I hate it when I have a fight on such a small island and then get knocked off
I'm not a tryhard or toxic person myself at all, I just play it for fun, I always think it's a shame when people start to act toxic when they get killed, they just take it a little bit too serious sometimes. Campers / skybasers are sometimes also a downside, but luckily we’re able to report them. But yes, it’s all part of the game I guess