Have you had a fake friend on CubeCraft?

[wxzzrd]

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[Meiske]

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I don't think you can do that- I think a lot of players would've been punished by now if this was possible.

 

[PerryJ]

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How to wipe out the whole FFA Community


@Lyri I've read your story. A lot has been said already, but I just want to reply to you as an older person here on Cubecraft. I play Cubecraft for like 5 years now and let me say this to you: Cubecraft can be harsh. It is quite the mirror of the real life between teenagers. Friends who are actually not really your friends. But there are also a lot of nice people here on the Cubecraft server. People who really wants to play with you and who wants to invest their time to be with you. It's just you must meet them first. They really exist though. I've read some reactions here about to ignore those people, let it drop etc. All true. Very true indeed, but easier said than done when people hurt you so bad. Even online. Every person is different. But know this: Time can heal some of the wounds. And when you meet the right person(s), it goes even faster. You never forget that you were hurt, but the pain inside you will go away little by little.

What is the defenition of a friend anyways on Cubecraft? I think it's someone who wants to invest their precious time to play with you all the time, talking with you inside and outside Cubecraft on Discord or Snapchat. Those are the people you must find. Those people exist, but like I said, you just must find them first.

I really hope people won't exclude you ever again. And if they do, then you know that those people aren't worth your time. Rumours are just rumours. You are the only truth. Like I said, It's easier said than done to ignore those people, but sometimes it is needed. Don't dwell into the past, but try again to make friends. Don't be affraid to talk to strangers. Eventually someone will say "hi" back to you. That will be the start of maybe a new friendship. I'm sure that the Cubecraft forum and Discord server will be a good place to start to make new friends again.

I wish you all the best :)

 

[Gemmmmie]

@Lyri I will always play games with you! :}

 

[Meiske]

Thank you everyone, I didn't expect to get this much support, and honestly, I've been wanting to share this story for a while. I'm going to follow up on most people's advice and cut this person out of my life completely. I believe that if I do that, things will get better for me in the future and I can begin to focus on what matters to me the most. I won't be attempting to confront her like a few people suggested, but only because I have now learned that she 100% does not care about me, and it would really be a waste of my time and patience.
I'm not giving up on Block Wars because they have beaten me. I'm making this change because I simply don't enjoy the game anymore, and I don't see any reason to continue playing a game I don't enjoy. There will be no more grinding wins in any game, I've decided I'm going to be online when I feel like it, and play more than just one game too, because the obsession I had with Block Wars was certainly not healthy and was doing too much damage to my mental health.
So, I am hoping to become more active outside of the network, such as on Forums and also the Discord. Some may have seen me there already, but thanks to this thread it occurred to me that there are so many players who are worth having as friends, but I've been so involved in Block Wars that I have failed to meet them.
I tried not to make this into an essay, I swear I did, but I couldn't do it! I hope that you still read this even though I didn't respond to each person individually. You are all so caring and understanding, and I wish I had met some people like you sooner in my time on CubeCraft.
(Sorry if you didn't want the tag, I just wanted to make sure people knew I’m grateful for the support!)

Of course, I'm really glad you've made the decision to cut them out of your life, also - we should really play sometime whenever you get the chance/if you want to!

 

[Moooofinlover]

@Moooofin betrayed me

 

[_anzs_]

sadly theres lots of ppl like that , and not even in minecraft, in real life, in your work, your school, it just be better to recognize the red flags and inmediately stop talking to that person, i hope u feel better

 

[SoundToTheThirdPower]

ive recently just had to deal with a fake friend, if you want to talk about it just msg me on the forums :3

 

[Ihateflyhackerspweaseban]

I've never had any actual friends at all.

Can relate

 

[Queen Ualala]

Can relate

you guys can start now.