Let me clear this up.
We enacted this in a much more strict way because we have gotten numerous complaints from parents, and mind telling the parent what to do, its true most kids get allowed access to the internet without many safe guards, and since we invite kids to join our server, we try to do our best to keep it at a standard suitable for kids, and all ages.
Secondly, many troll words were censured, as you stated, such as "gay" or others, this is due to the fact of unmature users using them as an offense, "you're so gay", so do not point the finger at us as if we were homophobic or as if we were racist. We block words as a result of their usage. We monitor chat usage on a daily basis, and modify our filters constantly to fit it in the best ways possible, regardless of the words used and what they imply. So tell the users that they are homophobic/racists, not us.
Thirdly, use of profanity language is not a mature thing to do, it implies that you cannot internally handle pressure. So, if you say we are pushing away a more mature audience, thats good, cause chances are those people aren't mature at all.
With that, this thread is closed. Further discussions on this matter are not welcome, and should be avoided.