Hello,
I think it’s for the better that gravestones stay, because when someone’s kills another player, they might not want the loot. But if they run into it, they collect all of the loot. And you also don’t need get to pick items when they are dropped on the ground. For example you have 2 stacks of wood, and you already have a stack so you don’t want any more because you’re inventory is almost full. But there’s a golden apple in the pile that you want, so you have to get the wood to get the apple.
Sure, it might be satisfying having an explosion of loot when you kill another player, but I think it’s for the better that we have lootable gravestones instead. I’m not sure I like the idea of voting aswell, because it would get really annoying for the players like the gravestones.
But anyways, thanks for the suggestion :)